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Laurence Morreale's avatar

Love this. I feel like we don’t give each other a chance to learn our bodies, enough. One bad session and onto the next one. Hookup culture has taken the spiritual connection out of sex, imo. It becomes all about one person or the other getting their needs met and thats it. Those three freedoms are very useful and unfortunately we learn stuff like this later in life after years of being told bad information. Great essay.

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kamory rose.'s avatar

Absolutely!!!

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In Flow State's avatar

Freedom to take my time, take “breaks” and check in with myself. Freedom to remember my breath and surrender deeply.

Freedom from the limited scope of what a pleasurable experience is “supposed to” look and feel like.

Freedom not to judge and shame the expressions that are arise in the intimate, vulnerable and highly co-creative process.

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In Flow State's avatar

Beautiful read. Thank you for your research on both the internal and external planes. May your repair process and journey back to embodying and expressing your inherent wholeness continue to aid in your endeavors.

I’m also a big fan of Shan so I’m glad to hear she’s back with some new content! You’ve peaked my interest with these other pods and continuing to pour into my own creative practices. It’s a reminder of the natural link between pleasure and productivity when we allow it to flow through us ✨

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kamory rose.'s avatar

Asé🤎 i have to remind myself to take a minute as well🤎

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