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Millie Rock's avatar

I have to leave a comment because of how loudly this piece spoke to me. I was just listening to 20 feet tall by Erykah Badu last week and sent it to the man I've been in a situationship with. I am also sitting with how emotional availability is showing up in my life a lot and learning how to address that from a place of accountability. This is tough work to do, so I'm happy to hear I'm not alone in this. Sending you care as you continue to learn how to love yourself the way you want someone to love you 💜

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adalaiah's avatar

a deliciously written stream of consciousness. makes me want to rediscover Erykah Badu. thank you for sharing a piece of your mind (and heart)!

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The Free Market Economist's avatar

I have visited Chicago multiple times, even interviewed for a job there but was rejected because I was not local. I enjoyed the Field House on each trip. Though I had several relatives there from my Mom’s (Swedish) side, I have always visited alone.

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Imani Allen's avatar

Beautiful 🩷I remember when Out My Mind, Just in Time came out my last year of college😆I'm like how does she know my life. Her albums are very relatable and I remember revisiting her albums HEAVY in my 20s like damn she on point. Her albums are part of the spiritual initiation of womanhood😂I Want You is my shit from Worldwide Underground. Since you're a 4h star you'll probably love Ye Yo as well.

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Nezzar knowles's avatar

Solid one Kams

I hope you find friends and a nigga that shares your values.

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Nicollette Mubiru's avatar

I have nothing to say except that you are blessed. Being able to write such a detailed piece. It’s artistic and beautiful. Very earthy. Thank you for being open minded and sharing. Also, yes erykah badu is who she thinks she is..”mother” and you yourself are mother cause you ate this piece up❤️appreciate you 🤗

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Sanaa' /suh-nah/'s avatar

Tyler Perry is very random to the point it's funny 🤣 I heard somewhere in Instagram that during intimacy with his wife he uses his Madea voice from time to time. This is all ALLEGED though 😭

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