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Eyana's avatar

When I say oldies, I literally mean older than me, I was born in the 90s, I need Chaka Khan, Anita Baker, Stevie Wonder,! Please don't come over here with king von, I need to be soft lol I agree, too much rap and not enough jazz or soul will make me believe you don't have the best intentions.

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LaQueshia Demetrianna's avatar

You called it when you said there’s a lack of poetry in their bones. And how can we communicate if we revel in different sheet music 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

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Kiara's avatar

All of this is why I think music is a love language 😭 very valid reason to cut someone off lol

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Virago Kemet's avatar

Any time a man I’m entertaining doesn’t know any music from at least the 70s I literally laugh in their face. I even put an old head onto Deniece Williams Melody album, which I got on vinyl from Mo Better Brews in Houston. I definitely looked at him sideways. But that’s why these young dudes ain’t got game. Between the music they listen to and the ain’t shit uncle giving them dating advice rooted in broke pimpology I see why we damn near have to teach them everything. It’s fucking sad.

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𖥔 ࣪ ᥫ᭡ꗃ⋆࣪.Nae's avatar

Broke pimpology😭😭😭🫠

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Alexis's avatar

I feel like you saw my soul and put it on paper (or in this case, on Substack). I put so many young men onto Teena Marie & Minnie Riperton as a young jawn that whenever they heard those artists, they thought of me. I love all the artists & music you listed and it’s depressing that so many folks (including artists) just don’t know about the greatness of R&B/Soul/Jazz before the 90’s…

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Yoshiko Wakum's avatar

Literally told myself the other day snap 🫰🏾 out of it !!!!!!! While listening to 90s RnB

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chi's avatar

i don't listen to much r&b for my own reasons but i can say that the reason most niggas my age don't is because of the cultural pendulum swing around the time of us coming up. takes a lot to shed the mindset that any romance is corny or lame or embarrassing or weak. most don't shed it, and this is a symptom of that

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𖥔 ࣪ ᥫ᭡ꗃ⋆࣪.Nae's avatar

Songs in the key of life!!!

I love as, sir Duke, ribbon in the sky, Do I Do etc... I love Luther Vandross: never too much obviously, don't you know that and yeah<3

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